What does beauty mean to you?  It is a powerful question, a question that one of my teachers asked me recently.  I had to really think about this one, and I am still thinking about it.

I realized that my conception and standard of beauty was quite narrow, narrow in the sense that it fit into a box or standards that I have fed into by society.  Because in reality, beauty is not narrow at all, beauty does not fit nor come in a box.

However, this is what we have been told our entire lives.  Starting with pink is pretty and pink is for girls.  But I like blue too, and black and almost every color out there.

In ancient times, women were taught from a young age about how to have a beautiful soul.  Our inner world and inner development was what was placed most importance on. It was understood that beauty, could not be found anywhere else but within oneself.

In ancient India, young girls were brought up with the images and devotion to goddesses.  You may know about the pantheon of Indian Goddesses, all unique and beautiful in her own right.  Beautiful in their example of qualities and energies a woman could develop within herself. For example, love, power, sensuality, abundance, wisdom, poetry, creativity, devotion and so many more.

Beauty was something to be found within and through this constant inner journey of self-love and development, it poured forth through a woman’s being.  Despite all the messages and products we are fed today to “be beautiful,” this ancient wisdom still holds.

In our lower belly, sits an energetic center that is the seed of our power as women, it is connected to our womb and is the flower of our life.  Beauty is an energy contained within, waiting for us to awaken to.  This awakening happens as we come into greater self-love.  On my journey this self-love starts with the body, the place from which most women stop believing in their beauty.

That beauty is something outside of us, is not true.  It’s simply an old system of belief that was sold to us so we would buy things.  We have all we need within ourselves.  It is one of the greatest truths, so simple and ready for us to unfold to!

About the Author


Committed to supporting women with awakening their true feminine spirit, Reena Desai is excited to share her mission with all of you Bella Beauties through articles just like this one. Reena coaches and guides women to live from their feminine nature as their greatest source of happiness, success and service to society. Want more of that in your life? Of course you do! Leave a comment or question below and Reena will be happy to guide you towards a happier more feminine you. To learn more about Reena Desai or to connect with her further, visit her Bella Life profile here.

2 Responses to Blossoming Into Beauty
  1. I found that after I had my child, I stopped obsessing over my waistline and love handles. I gained weight, yes, and it was only then that I realized I was actually pretty skinny before pregnancy. I just couldn’t see it because I was always obsessing about losing more weight. Now, I am comfortable with my new shape and am less self conscious. I think that when we look within and feel more comfortable with our bodies, we naturally feel more beautiful.


[top]

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

You may use these HTML tags and attributes: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>