Recently, we checked in with Nichelle Pace, StyleMom Founder and Editor in Chief of StyleMom, who believes in embracing fashion, beauty and sexiness, to compliment the role as a mother, or as she says, the next phase of life as a woman. Nichelle filled us in on how to lighten and freshen up your lifestyle.

Here are some tips for staying stylish & fresh:

Lighten Up: Relax, it’s supposed to be fun. Just like reading a book or going to a movie, shopping and fashion is supposed to be fun. Take a cue from your daughter when she plays dress up. The fun should amplify as an adult (better accessories!).

Try A Classic: Nichelle is a big fan of Bobby pins which we go to special occasions but once you know how to use them you can make any do a super do, try a high bun pony tail. Check out the Updo Kit http://search.ulta.com/cosmetics/Updo%20Kit

Cut & Fit first: The key element to anything you buy whether couture, vintage or a flea market find is that the fit and the cut are right for your body. Training your eye to see this on yourself may be harder than seeing it for your children but can make all the difference in how you look and feel.

Indulgence Is a Necessity: Carving time to take care of yourself is a necessity for your wellbeing, not a luxury. It makes you feel normal. Do not feel guilty the next time you go for a mani/pedi. It’s therapeutic to have time to relax and recoup and it is more beneficial to your kids to have a relaxed mom than a stressed out momma. Maintaining your wellbeing directly affects your home life and happiness. Take the time for yourself is deeper than what you look like on the outside.

Home Remedies: If you don’t have time for a full on salon appointment or spa day, set yourself up at home. Find ways to add beauty to your regime without breaking the bank or making it stressful. Try using press on nail sheets which go on dry! For your dead ends try making your own hair masque with eggs, mayonnaise and avocado and put it on with a plastic bag for a deep conditioner. Do double duty and apply the masque while doing your laundry. Check out some homemade mask recipes!

Accessories Add Color: Use accessories for fun and to cover up. Nichelle loves scarves and loves to add punches of color. Go for some chunky bracelets and have some fun with color. Accessories can dress up your favorite t-shirt and jeans and make it seem like a different outfit every time you wear it.

Let Go of Your Clutch: Don’t be afraid to try something new. I recently cut 10+ inches off my hair and ditched my favorite black cardigan sweater and while I’m still adjusting to the new me I’m loving the fact that I had the guts to do it!!

Maintain yourself and your happiness with just a punch of color and make it fun!

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